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What is the story behind MMASI Fragrances
MMASI Fragrances was incorporated in the United States in 2019. We launched our first two fragrances in 2021: Into Me for Her and Into Me for Him, now rebranded as Into Me Decadent and Into Me Impression, respectively. MMASI is a women-owned business with a mission to promote self-love and community through our fragrances.
Who are the founders of MMASI Fragrances
MMASI was founded by a mother and daughter duo. They are also in the healthcare field.
Where is MMASI Fragrances based
MMASI is based in NYC. However we sell throughout the United States.
What are the values of MMASI
See above to learn more about our values represented by 6 E's
Why did MMASI close for over a year? Will MMASI close again?
Firstly, we apologize to our customers, supporters and trusted business partners for our closing and for the gap in communication. We closed because we had to revamp our operations and clarify our branding and direction as a company. Now that we have built a solid foundation, we do not intend on closure again. Additionally we are confident that we will address any unexpected challenges with resilience, resolve and grace.
It's fascinating that a pediatrician would go into making fragrances? As a company, what is your why?
Dr. Chiamaka's story is deeply rooted in a legacy of healing and entrepreneurship. For over four generations, her family has been dedicated to both – her mother initially was a teacher then started her own cosmetic line in Nigeria and now runs a successful pharmacy in Brooklyn, and her father, a pharmacist himself, built his own business from the ground up after immigrating to the USA with nothing to his name but a few hundred dollars. Dr. Chiamaka's siblings are equally driven; several are pharmacists or pharmacy owners, while others excel in advanced chemistry, real estate and marketing.
For Dr. Chiamaka and her mother, fragrances have been a powerful tool for self-care and confidence since childhood. They view personal care products, especially fragrances, as a way to express self-love and transform their thoughts and overall well-being. Dr. Chiamaka believes that through fragrances, she can share not only her passion for scents but also her story of self-discovery and its profound impact on her life's path - a path that led her to become a pediatrician and a business leader.
Dr. Chiamaka's company embodies this philosophy – self-love is the foundation for a fulfilling life and healthy relationships. They believe that by setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care, they can better care for others and contribute to a world where everyone thrives. This interconnectedness lies at the heart of their message, woven into every aspect of Dr. Chiamaka's life, career and business.
Subscribe to MMASI's YouTube channel to learn more about their unique perspective on business, fragrance and self-love and its power to transform lives.
Why is business ethics so important to you as a company ?
As a company led by women and people of color, we've encountered instances where our capabilities were underestimated or even dismissed. These experiences, while frustrating and leading to missed opportunities for all parties involved, have not defined us as victims. They have, however, empowered us by opening our eyes to broader issues of business inequity that extend beyond race. This includes inflation, lack of transparency, unequal access to resources or funding for small businesses, predatory loan practices, and limited communication/transparency from business partners so they can maintain leverage – all of which can significantly disadvantage entrepreneurs and its time it is openly and calmly addressed.
But here's the good news: we're built to persevere. We will overcome obstacles, prejudice, and social uncertainity to achieve our mission and vision. In doing so, we aim to leave a legacy of a more equitable and fair business landscape. Because it's not always what we do that matters, it's also how we do it that can be impactful.
There's a critical need for open conversations about business ethics in a way that's objective, unemotional, empathetic, and logical. Our goal isn't to wage a crusade against any particular entity or big business, but rather to ask the tough questions, identify inconsistencies, and collectively elevate ethical standards within partnerships, particularly in the fragrance and beauty industry. A wise man once said that he views respect as a form of love and so do we. And its time we not only talk nice to each other but more importantly, we need to have regard for one another. If you are a business owner reading this and you would like to read more about silent or avert behaviors that can be interpreted as respect vs disrespect in a business and even employment relationship - here is how you can approach business partnerships so that you can gain their trust and earn the opportunity.
Is MMASI Fragrances cruelty-free?
Yes we are, none of our ingredients have been used on animals and we do not do animal testing.
What are the notes used in MMASI Fragrances?
Into Me Decadent:
Top: Almond, Bergamot, Jamaican Coffee Bean
Middle: French Vanilla, Tuberose, Jasmine, Indian Rose, Patchouli
Base: Cashmere, Cocoa, Tonka Bean, Sandalwood
Into Me Impression:
Top: Bergamot, Sicilian Lime, Pink Pepper, Cocktail Grapefruit
Middle: Jasmine, Watermelon, Indian Ginger
Base: Sandalwood, Amber, Patchouli, Cedar
NYer High Times:
Top Notes: Rose, Frankincense, Bulgarian Lavender
Middle Notes: Tobacco, Saffron, Cannabis
Base Notes: Sandalwood, Cocoa, Leather
NYer Shine:
Top: Vanilla, Coconut Cream, Caramel
Middle: Jasmine, Rose Orchid
Base: Indian Sandalwood, Vetiver
Are there any fragrance ingredients that people with allergies or sensitivities should be aware of?
There are no known fragrance allergens by IFRA guidelines. Here is additional information on IFRA:
IFRA, in the world of fragrances, stands for the International Fragrance Association. It's basically the industry's governing body, and their role is important for a few reasons:
- Safety First: IFRA sets safety standards for fragrance ingredients. They do this by reviewing scientific research and then issuing guidelines on how much of a specific ingredient can be used in a fragrance. This helps ensure that the perfumes and scented products we use are safe for our skin and don't cause any unwanted reactions.
- Consumer Confidence: By having these safety standards, IFRA helps build trust in the fragrance industry. We can feel more confident using fragranced products knowing they've been created following established safety protocols.
- Transparency: IFRA also promotes transparency within the industry. They publish a list of all the fragrance ingredients their members use, which can be helpful if you have any sensitivities or allergies.
So, essentially, IFRA works behind the scenes to make sure the world of fragrance remains enjoyable and safe for everyone.
Are there plans to release new fragrances in the future?
Yes, we plan on releasing new fragrances for 2025. However, we believe that it is better to release fragrances one or a few at a time in small batches to
1. Reduce waste
2. Focus on quality
3. Test the market with each new release
4. Grow sustainably & organically
5. Be able to remain customer focused
Our small batch releases is not a reflection of our capacity. It is a reflection of our much we value sustainability and experimentation before scaling up.
What are the sizes and prices of the fragrances?
Into Me Impression
2ml: $6
10ml: $25
100ml: $150
Into Me Decadent
2ml: $6
10ml: $25
100ml: $150
NYer High Times
2ml: $7
10ml: $29
100ml: $169
NYer Shine
2ml: $6
10ml: $25
100ml: $150
Do you ship to customers who reside outside of the United States of America?
Thank you for your interest in our products! We currently only ship domestically within the United States of America. We understand this may be inconvenient, and we apologize for any limitations it may cause.
While international shipping isn't available for most customers at this time, we may make very very rare exceptions for established and trusted business partners. We're constantly evaluating our options, and we'll be sure to keep you informed via email if and when international shipping becomes more widely available.
In the meantime, please don't hesitate to contact us if you have any other questions. We're always happy to help!
My order was cancelled, why?
Protecting our customers and our business is a top priority. To ensure a safe and secure shopping experience for everyone, we may need to take action in cases of suspected fraudulent activity.
We understand that sometimes these situations can be frustrating. If you ever encounter issues with your transaction, please know that our customer support team is always happy to assist you. They can help you verify your information and ensure a smooth shopping experience.
We value your business and appreciate your cooperation in maintaining a secure environment for all. Additionally, here is our communication guideline.
Can I customize my own fragrance?
While we don't currently offer custom fragrance options, we understand the desire for personalization. We're constantly exploring ways to enhance the MMASI experience, and if customization becomes a possibility, our valued subscribers will be the first to know. Subscribe here.
Will MMASI Fragrances be offering refills for the bottles in the future?
We're committed to making MMASI even more eco-friendly, at our own pace to avoid greenwashing. We're currently studying refillable options, but we take the time to ensure minimal environmental impact throughout the entire process, including the refills themselves.
While refillable programs are a great ideal, refill packaging also creates waste. Unfortunately, for liquid solutions, especially when shipped to recipients, some level of packaging is often necessary to ensure safe transport and prevent product damage.
We're transparent and believe in doing things right. Subscribe to our email list for updates on future initiatives, including refillable options when they become a responsible fit for MMASI.
Can I extend the time to edit my order?
We understand that sometimes changes need to be made to an order. However, to ensure timely delivery and avoid placing unnecessary stress on our human fulfillment team, modifications to orders cannot be accepted after 4 hours of placement.
Self-love includes understanding your needs and being decisive. While making firm decisions can be challenging, it empowers you. Carefully consider your desires before a purchase, and stay true to your decision until you receive and evaluate the item(s). Returns on full bottles are available.
Our fulfillment team consists of dedicated individuals, just like you, who have other obligations to meet throughout the day. By respecting this timeframe, we can ensure they have enough time to accurately process your order and many others, while still fulfilling their commitments.
We strive to provide a fair and consistent experience for all our customers. Unfortunately, extending the order editing window for individual orders can make it challenging to maintain that consistency. Therefore, we can not grant such requests.
If you need to contact us about your order after the 4 hour time window closes, our friendly customer support team is here to help! Due to the volume of inquiries we receive and potential timezone differences, reaching a representative may take 24-48 hours for initial contact.
Also consider a return: If you receive your order and it's not quite right, many of our items are eligible for return. For full bottle (100 ml) orders, please note that you can return them for a full refund as long as the full bottle box remains unopened and in its original condition.
See our full return policy here.
We appreciate your patience and understanding as we work diligently to assist everyone as quickly as possible.
No need to stress because we have you covered, use Lyro, our AI assistant chatbot to let us know if you have any further questions!
Do you offer gift cards?
No, not at this time. If you would like us to offer giftcards - fill out this survey here.
Do you offer promotional pricing?
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Do you have a loyalty program?
Yes we do, our loyalty program is automatically built in once you subscribe using this quiz.
Where can I buy MMASI Fragrances in stores?
MMASI Fragrances are not in stores, however we will start attending pop-up shops most probably in 2025 and when we do we will let you know via email. Subscribe here.
As a business to business (B2B) prospective partner, why do I have to fill out a form to initiate contact?
As fellow business owners, we believe in assertive communication. This means approaching each other with a well-thought-out plan (without expectation) and a list of open-ended and clarifying questions. By doing this, we can gain a clear understanding of each other's desires and needs, allowing us to work together effectively to fulfill them.
We understand that perfection isn't always achievable – mistakes and life events happen! What matters most is everyone coming to the table with self-awareness and some thought. Knowing who you are, what you offer, and your boundaries are crucial for successful partnerships. This includes striving for progress, openly acknowledging and correcting mistakes without defensiveness, and expressing your feelings honestly and respectfully. After all, self-love and transparency are key ingredients for any thriving collaboration.
How can a customer get in contact with MMASI?
We welcome inquiries. For the fastest responses, our AI assistant is equipped to address a remarkable 95% of your inquiries, providing you with the information you seek swiftly. Whether you require initiating a return or filing a complaint, our AI assistant can efficiently handle these matters for you. And if it can't a human representative will take over.
Simply locate the chat icon positioned in the lower corner of your screen and begin a conversation. It's that easy!
Is MMASI like so many other companies replacing humans with AI?
As an emerging brand we never had full time employers. We have utilized freelancers and independent contractors for almost all of our work from the start. And we hope to continue doing so in an as needed basis until we require full time services.
At our company, we champion the responsible use of AI. We see it as a powerful tool that expands our capabilities and allows for more thorough responses. AI also helps us streamline processes and improve our query efficiency.
However, we firmly believe in the human touch. Unlike AI, our team members require rest and time for other important tasks. To ensure you receive the best possible service infused with genuine human energy, we kindly request a 24-hour window for responses. After all, human connection and the positive energy we bring are what truly move mountains, even with the occasional bump(s) in the road.
Would the founders be interested in being interviewed or writing for a diversity-focused article or video?
Earned media opportunities that explore the intersection of business ethics, self-care, and self-love are a perfect fit for MMASI! Our core messages are deeply interconnected: self-love, fragrance as a form of self-care, embracing your identity, and ethical practices. Diversity and race relations naturally weave into this tapestry but is not our leading story angle.
Authenticity is our driving force, not simply being a symbol of diversity. We encourage you to learn more about our company and values before reaching out – if you share our values, you'll find a strong alignment with an ethical perspective.
I just ordered and reached out to support but haven't heard back in a few hours?
If you recently placed an order and our AI assistant has not answered your immediate questions, please allow us up to 24 hours to initiate human support. In the meantime, you can easily check your order status or make changes through the order status page in your email or by visiting our self-service portal here. Please note that you have 4 hours within the time you placed your order to do so.
How can I contact the CEO of MMASI directly?
Attention Prospective Business Partner, Including Influencers :
If you're seeking to initiate contact with our CEO, we kindly ask that you utilize the designated forms on our contact us page. This streamlined approach ensures efficient communication for both you and our executive team, particularly since our 2024 relaunch.
We value your time and ours. To ensure a comprehensive review of your business proposal, please allow 1-14 business days for a response. This timeframe reflects the depth and investment involved in carefully considering new partnerships.
Thank you for your understanding.
What are the shipping options and costs?
MMASI offers only ground shipping options via USPS. The cost is calculated during checkout. Please note, there is a small handling fee as well.
How can I track my order?
Track your order here
What is your return and exchange policy?
MMASI fragrances are good but i'm not sure it justifies the $150 price point?
As an emerging brand, our products are not mass-produced. While they may share similarities with other fragrances in the market — with over 27,000 new fragrances created annually — finding absolute uniqueness is challenging and not necessary for a customer's happiness with the product. The true value of our products lies in their exceptional quality. In a landscape of abundant choices, we prioritize crafting fragrances that deliver unparalleled excellence and satisfaction.
We take great care and attention to detail when producing and processing your products and orders, making us a high-valued brand focused on quality, not quantity.
The price of our products reflects our unwavering commitment to quality. We source our ingredients from industry leaders in premium quality and sustainability of ingredients, ensuring the finest fragrances available. To add a cherry to the cake, our packaging is also designed to look as beautiful as you should feel.
But quality is only part of the MMASI experience. A smaller portion of our pricing reflects the exceptional customer service, meticulous attention to detail, and unmatched flexibility you'll receive.
Here's what sets us apart:
- Peace of mind: If your package gets lost, we'll locate it or replace it, at no cost to you.
- Transparency: You'll receive timely updates about your order status.
- Control: You have the freedom to edit your order even after purchase for a few hours.
- Sustainability: Our shipping boxes are designed for reuse, minimizing waste.
- Expertise: Your fragrances are shipped from a fulfillment center specializing in niche fragrances, ensuring proper handling and continued customer personalization.
These are just some of the benefits that come with choosing MMASI. These features, developed over four years of planning, dedication and countless investment, create a truly exceptional customer experience.
If you prioritize affordability over the highest quality and unparalleled service, we understand. There are other options available and we encourage you to do what is best for you. However, at MMASI, we believe in premium quality and exceptional care for our customers. We simply don't cut corners. We treat our customers the way we want to be treated with efficiency, personalization, attention to detail and most importantly - responsiveness to resolving customer requests or concerns.
How could MMASI respond to these theoretical statements below:
"MMASI standards are high, they will scare away a lot of potential partners"?
We appreciate your perspective on our standards. It's true, having clear criteria can limit the pool of potential partners. However, we believe that partners who share our high standards and commitment to quality won't be deterred. In fact, they'll likely appreciate the focus on excellence.
Finding the right partner is a bit like finding a great spouse – you have to go on dates (explore opportunities) before you can commit to a marriage (long-term partnership). There might be missed opportunities but there are no such thing as lost opportunities. There is only 'alignment' and 'misalignment' - the 'right time' and the 'wrong time'. MMASI has a patient vision – we are not looking for fast, get rich quick, unsustainable success. We will wait decades for what's best for us, building strong partnerships that will thrive in the long run. In the end we will win because we are patient, resilient and authentic.
Financial success is vital, but it shouldn't be the sole compass for a business. A company's true competitive advantage is found in how it makes money and who it chooses to partner with. A strong purpose beyond profit, aligned with core values, fosters a more meaningful work environment and attracts talent who share the vision. Ultimately, operating with integrity builds trust and positions the business for sustainable success.
"I have helped many black and woman owned brands, I can helped you too"?
Thank you for reaching out. While we value your experience working with Black and women-owned brands, we have specific requirements and goals for our partnerships. Could you elaborate on how your experience directly aligns with MMASI's mission and vision? Additionally, providing a well-thought-out financial forecast of your proposed collaboration would be helpful in our evaluation.
Additionally, we are happy that under-represented groups have received your support and wish them continued success in business.
"I have a lot of influence, what I say goes. I am someone you want to know and I don't need to fill out a form because you can clearly see I am who I say I am by my profile. You guys are going to potentially miss out on something great I'm planning"?
Thank you for your interest in partnering with MMASI. We understand the value of influence in brand awareness campaigns.
However, at MMASI, we prioritize partnerships that drive not just awareness, but also conversions that align with our vision of loving and caring for yourself so we can all love and care for others. While a large following is impressive, successful collaborations require a deep understanding of your audience and their true engagement. Click-through rates, demographics, and testimonials are all crucial metrics for us to assess a partnership's potential impact on sales.
We have a structured partnership selection process that helps us identify individuals and organizations with the right audience, message alignment, and a collaborative spirit. Filling out the form in our contact us section allows us to gather this information efficiently and assess compatibility more effectively.
The form also allows you to share data and examples of how your audience aligns with MMASI's target market and how your influence translates to conversions. We understand your time is valuable, and the form is designed to be straightforward to complete.
If you don't have time to complete the form, then you don't have time to take on a new client. That's perfectly fine! We'd rather you focus on your current workload so you do not over-extend yourself.
Additionally, at MMASI, we operate with an abundance mentality. We believe everyone has the potential to thrive, and we reject scarcity or FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) mindsets. There's is nothing greater you can give us that what God plans for us. We wish you continued success in your endeavors, and we extend that sentiment to your partners, including all those involved in promotions, events, initiatives, and projects, especially those from other underrepresented groups and women-owned brands.
"I thought that X business was my friend, how could they abandon our partnership."?
Business partnerships are built on shared goals and mutual respect, not necessarily traditional friendship. Ask yourself if you were being honest from the start or if you had abandoned yourself by abandoning your own stated shared values? Loyalty between businesses lies with the two company's mission, vision, and values. As long as these align, the partnership thrives. However, just like friendships, business relationships can evolve.
If someone wants to leave but you recognize that you are equally matched with someone in the longterm, it's best to part ways gracefully. Opportunities meant for you will return as you grow in your offerings, mindset, and skills. You can step back without burning bridges or coercing others to collaborate. Keep the door open during operational pauses, knowing the other party may revive their efforts at a later time.
Staying competitive requires constant growth and adaptation. We must always bring our A game, embrace new challenges, and refine our approach to ensure reliability, safety, and consistency. The business landscape is ever-changing, and so should we. Remember, even when things get emotional, it's important to keep it professional. Seek excellence in everything you do, and people who value that excellence will have no choice but to want to work with you. But have enough self-awareness and humility to know if you are offering everything that is asked of you. A strong partnership requires open communication and the willingness to adapt to meet each other's needs. Also note that busy work does not equal effective work. Constantly striving to improve your offerings given market changes and exceeding expectations will solidify your position as a long term valuable partner.
"I did so much for company X and they are still are not happy, there is no pleasing them."?
I appreciate the effort you put in, but there seems to be a gap between what we discussed and the final results. To help you bridge that gap and ensure future success, let's discuss some areas for improvement.
Here are a few things that might be helpful:
- Confidence and Skill Development: Sometimes a lack of confidence in specific skills can hinder performance. Let's explore resources or training that can help you feel more assured in your abilities.
- Detailed Understanding: A deeper understanding of the project's goals and expectations is crucial. Next time, feel free to ask even more questions to ensure clarity on all aspects of the task.
- Attention to Detail: Double-checking details is vital. Let's discuss strategies to ensure all aspects are considered and addressed effectively.
- Openness to Feedback: Feedback is an opportunity to learn and grow. Approaching it with a spirit of humility will help you refine your skills and consistently deliver exceptional results. Remember, feedback is not a punishment, it's a chance to improve together.
- Time Management and Prioritization: Effective time management and prioritization are key to success. Let's explore techniques to help you manage your workload efficiently.
Additionally, staying up-to-date on emerging technologies like AI, relevant to the project can be highly beneficial.
*It's also important to consider that sometimes personality traits, sensitivity levels, or a lack of self-awareness can make it difficult to receive feedback. If you find yourself resistant to constructive criticism, let's explore ways to develop a more open and receptive mindset. It's also important to consider that sometimes personality traits, sensitivity levels, or a lack of self-awareness can make it difficult to receive feedback. This can be especially true for people of color (POC), who may have encountered situations where feedback have been unfair or overly critical throughout their lives. These experiences can lead to a defensive response. As a business owner, we are mindful of all reasons why anyone of any background (race, gender, ethnicity, disability status, etc) might resist feedback therefore we approach things with care and diplomacy. And we encourage you to do the same too. Alway remember that just because someone is straightforward or seems tough does not mean they don't value kindness. And as a general rule, treat everyone with respect the first time you meet them.
We understand that sometimes feedback can be challenging to receive. However, when we provide feedback two or more times, it's because we're genuinely invested in your success. If you're resistant to the feedback, it can create roadblocks in the project's progress. In such cases, it becomes necessary to explore alternative solutions, which may involve escalation or even disengagement.
It's always best to address any corrections or adjustments before accepting payment. This ensures a smooth and positive experience for both you and the client. Think of it as an investment in your own growth. Every project is a learning opportunity, and refining your skills through these experiences is like building muscle memory. The more you hone a skill, the easier and more efficient it becomes to execute in the future, leading to consistently exceptional results for your clients. Therefore, there's no wasted effort – every project contributes to your professional development and strengthens your ability to deliver top-notch work. This ongoing development allows you to offer even greater value to future clients.
At MMASI, we value a dedication to growth and exceeding expectations, a mindset exemplified by our CEO, Dr. Chiamaka. Her youthful appearance might surprise some, but her experiences are diverse and rigorous. Early in her career, Dr. Chiamaka actively pursued challenging projects, often with limited compensation, to test her skills and push boundaries. While financial realities changed for her, just like for many professionals, her commitment to excellence remains unwavering. Every project she's involved in receives her full dedication, exceeding expectations even within the constraints of paid work.
At MMASI, we believe in complete transparency and working with individuals whose values align with ours. Before taking on a project, it's important for both parties to have a clear understanding of what's expected. This includes you confidently outlining your skills and experience, along with any areas you're still developing. On our end, we'll provide a detailed project outline and expectations. By openly communicating strengths and limitations upfront, we can ensure the project aligns with your capabilities and our goals.
We're all here to learn and grow together. Don't hesitate to ask questions and embrace feedback as a way to reach your full potential!
Building Trust and Value:
190 Cornerstones of Ethical Business-Business Partnerships
- We all see the world through our own lens. Confidence can be misread as arrogance if we don't acknowledge our presumptions. Understanding different perspectives is crucial to avoid misjudgment.
- Maintaining perspective: not everything is about you: Not everything said or written is about you nor is it a personal attack. Therefore, it is unfair to suggest silencing someone because their honest but respectful words make you uncomfortable. If you feel that something pertains to you, take a moment to ask yourself why or simply ask the person directly. It is unhealthy to go through life viewing other people's actions as a personal attack. This is not fair to others or yourself.
- Don't interpret a disagreement as the end of the partnership or as a personal attack. Constant positivity can also be unhealthy. We're human. We disagree. We work it out. We rinse and repeat. It's the resolution that matters and if done right, it can build life-long relationships. Approach business with a problem solving attitude, not as a battle zone. The later is unhealthy and counterproductive.
- Don't throw your business partners or colleagues under the bus: This could damage your collegial relationship and contribute to a toxic work environment.
- Empowerment without exploitation: Even if someone lacks knowledge about a specific aspect of business, it's important to empower them without taking advantage of their ignorance. Having knowledge about something does not give you leverage, it gives you responsibility. You can also give them clues or insights without being condescending. However, it's also essential to recognize that you are not obligated to become their mentor or teacher because your time is valuable. Additionally, avoid automatically assuming that someone doesn't know what they are doing or lacks the aptitude to learn quickly.
- Clarifying Professional Relationships and Affirmative Action: Hiring or partnering with a person of color is not a favor, charity or inherently an act of affirmative action. When they pay you or render a service, it becomes a business transaction or fee for service. Full services rendered as agreed upon politely deserve full payment, and full fees paid deserve full services to be rendered, politely. A qualified person of color should receive the same treatment, consideration and benefits as any other employee or partner, without it being a big deal or political. Please also note that affirmative action seeks to counter historical implicit bias and does not negate talent, hard work, or skills.
- Trauma Is not a trust-building tool: Putting someone through hardship to "test" them or to validate/invalidate if they can handle the task erodes trust, not builds it. This kind of practice is also highly unethical and unproductive for the company's mission and bottom line. Respect boundaries and other people’s humanity. Build trust through genuine actions and exploration of desires, not by manipulation, hazing, bullying, secrecy or deception.
- Prioritizing Competency in Hiring and Partnership: it's important to avoid making decisions primarily based on skin color or demographics. Employees and partners should feel they've earned their positions and this should be emphasized throughout the company.
- Ethical Content Sharing: Promoting Fairness and Perspective: Using someone else's content with ill intent to defame others or solely profit from it (without making it relevant to your content) is unethical. When resharing content, provide a holistic insight that considers the original creator's perspective. Creatively remix the content however you'd like (that's part of being social on social media) but avoid the spread of singular narratives especially if the narrative is not truly constructive and/or accurate.
- Embracing Diversity: Beyond Names and Ages: It's important not to judge someone based on their name or age. In today's interconnected world and diverse world, talent and hard work is not dependent on age or ethnicity. In business take an objective approach when partnering with people and do not bring past experiences or prejudice into new experiences.
- Respecting Brand Integrity: Avoiding Imposing Political or Social Messages: It's essential to refrain from injecting political messages into someone else's brand. However, if a brand chooses to incorporate a political or social message into their own brand, they have the freedom to do so but as a business partner or content creator only speak on sensitive topics using your own product or brand.
- Clarifying Integrity in Promotion: Influencers and Business Owners: Being compensated to promote a product as an influencer or business owner does not diminish their genuine interest or use of the product. Their primary role is to help others discover and appreciate amazing products. It's important not to assume that making money leads influencers and business owners to compromise on their commitment to their audience's needs or safety. The way to truly gauge someone's integrity is to see if the product they promote lives up to their claims. Each audience member should purchase a sample of the product to try themselves, as influencers can vary in their taste, perspectives and experiences. So if an audience member invests heavily into a product that does not live up to your expectations, the audience member is also to blame for not sampling first. Both the influencer and audience share responsibility in avoiding disappointments.
- Challenging Bias in Business: Redefining Intent and Perception: In any business context, intent is crucial. It is essential to act with good intentions. It's important to acknowledge that two actions may appear identical but can have vastly different intentions behind them. The stereotype that portrays intentional women as calculating and intentional men as smart undermines our efforts to foster an inclusive business environment. This bias not only perpetuates stereotypes but also hinders meaningful change, as gender or any other demographics does not determine intent or character.
- Addressing Bias Before Business: If you struggle with respecting women, people of color, or differing genders, it is crucial to first confront and resolve your biases before engaging with them in business. Failing to do so risks causing more harm than good and can detrimentally affect someone's business, which is not fair to them. It can also affect your reputation.
- The Ethics of Generosity in Business: It is not ethical to expect or demand generosity from a business owner, especially if it not compensated for, goes beyond the agreement or standard expectations and could deplete their resources. Nobody is entitled to generosity; generosity is a gift that often finds its way to those who demonstrate an attitude of gratitude.
- Prioritizing Excellence Over Extras: Instead of compensating by offering extras, focus on excelling at meeting the required expectations first. Once those are met, any additional efforts are a bonus and should be compensated accordingly.
- Do not put down others to gain social advantage: We're here to collaborate and achieve success, not engage in social posturing. As partners, we're not competitors; we're working together. Let's focus on the task at hand and avoid unproductive distractions.
- A contract is not a weapon: Although a contract is a legally binding document, is should not be flaunted as a weapon to wield against one another. The goal is to resolve matters through communication and mutual understanding before resorting to the contract. Even with a contract in place, there can be flexibility to adapt to changing circumstances and maintain a positive working relationship. And each party should be open to renegotiation as see fit. A contract that is not negotiable at all is a huge red flag.
- Bullying should not occur in business: bullying includes excluding someone, ignoring someone, attempting to steal attention away from them, being passive aggressive and more. And realize that although you are free to act in this way, if you are called out for it, do not then play the victim to garner support despite your unethical behavior. And if you are an onlooker do not condone this kind of behavior because if they can do it to someone else, they can one day do it to you.
- Embracing authenticity and transparency in modern business: The old business model thrived on secrecy and deception, but the future of business will thrive on authenticity and transparency. People are tired of being taken advantage of and taken for granted. Therefore, it is crucial for leaders to adapt and embrace authenticity and transparency.
- Self-advocacy is a standard human action, not defiance: Don't mistake it for hostility. Smart partnerships thrive on open communication, not misplaced interpretations.
- Avoid putting others down to elevate yourself so you can be hired: Speaking condescendingly to someone to then make them seek your approval is unnecessary and manipulative. If a potential business partner has chosen to engage with you, it indicates a desire and the respect to collaborate to begin with. So, there's no need to assert dominance, if you do then you give them every right to disengage. Don't self-sabotage your own success because of ego or insecurity. Do the inner work first.
- Respectful negotiation practices: Avoid making someone feel bad for negotiating. Do not assume their negotiation implies a lack of gratitude for what you are offering or a lack of respect. Effective negotiation is commonplace and a business skill, and it is important to note that there is a disparity in negotiation practices among a greater proportion (not all) of women due to societal conditioning and expectations. And women who negotiate are more likely to be dismissed. As a leader it is your job to honor, promote and respect the general practices of business. We aim to encourage change and promote unemotional, fair and productive business negotiations by all parties involved.
- Understanding Human Nature: Self-Awareness and Self-Control: If you believe you are incapable of doing harm as a human, you may actually be the one capable of causing the most harm. It's crucial to be aware of our true nature and potential so that we can develop self-control and responsibility.
- Navigating community discord: If you believe in something, then convey it without villainizing specific people or specific demographics. Stand on your own two feet, not on the backs of others. If your message is truly positive and ethical, it will garner support without aggravating social divide.
- Keep business dealings private: Do not post identifiable private or specific business dealings online. This is unethical and can ruin collaborations and the positive culture and ethical conduct of the entire industry. Handle your business maturely, and address issues directly with empathy and respect. Publicly disclosing private information can harm your reputation and is unprofessional. Stay calm and proceed with logic.
- Don't sabotage someone's success just to prove a point. This is not kind nor is it ethical. Give them the resources and support they need to succeed. The same resources and support you would give your friend!
- Kindness is not forgotten: Although not required, those who genuinely extend a helping hand, without expectation of reciprocity, earn lasting admiration and might garner loyalty from a business partner.
- Fair consequences: To ensure fairness and understanding, it's important to reconfirm expectations and propose a resolution before issuing consequences. We are human, not robots. If the grievance wasn't dire, and the company or individual is apologetic and willing to change after deliberation, a second chance can be appropriate. Make sure that punitive measures are not out of proportion to the deed. Although a punishment can be within your policy or right to do, it doesn't mean it is ethical. A policy is not the same as a moral compass. Also make sure your policy is public, clear and known from the very start, so no one is blind-sided.
- "BOOST P": the elements of constructive feedback:
- Balanced: Providing a mix of positive and developmental feedback.
- Observational: Based on specific observations and examples.
- Objective: Focused on behaviors and outcomes, not personal traits.
- Specific: Clear and precise, addressing actions or behaviors.
- Timely: Given promptly after the event or behavior to be effective.
- Plan: Focused on a resolution that will benefit all parties after discussion. Stay away from being harshly punitive unless you do not see change after neutral & fair deliberation involving all parties.
- Beware of the tendency for some business owners to harbor resentment and entitlement. Building something from the ground up can be challenging and even traumatic, leading to a sense that the world owes us something for the stress and hardships endured. It's crucial to recognize that everyone faces their own trials, including our customers, and it's unfair to diminish or compare these experiences. Therefore, adopting a mindset of raising prices or demanding more from others to compensate for personal struggles or validate grandiose ideologies is counterproductive in business.
Instead, use your experiences as motivation to positively impact the world and focus on providing exceptional service. However, it's important to note that many business owners actually do not carry resentment and instead set high standards, which is not entitlement but a commitment to excellence that will bear fruit for the customers. The measure of fairness and high standards lies in whether someone goes the extra mile for themselves and others. Reasonable people will hold you to the same standards they uphold for themselves, and it's not appropriate to dissuade them from doing so. Your choice lies in engaging or calmly disengaging with anyone who does not share your standards or values. - Strong boundaries foster respect: Without healthy boundaries, not only is safety potentially compromised, but self-respect itself becomes questionable.
- Maintain confidentiality: Do not reveal information about a company that they have not publicly disclosed. This is a breach of trust and boundaries, and potentially a contractual violation if an NDA was signed.
- Clarifications are not challenges embracing questions and feedback: A question or clarification about a policy or standards is not a sign of resistance or an attempt to be challenging even if its done publicly. Sometimes its better to politely ask publicly because if they had that question, maybe others had the same question too. However, it's important to be mindful of tone—a wrong tone or antagonistic choice of words can come off as abrasive. But, instead of jumping to conclusions when you hear an offputting tone, consider politely addressing the situation directly with the person: 'Your tone makes me feel challenged. Is there something I did to upset you?' .. We live in a diverse world with different communication styles; it's crucial not to judge someone's character or intent based solely on tone.
- Managing exceptions: ensuring clarity and consistency: Granting an exception to one person increases the likelihood of needing to grant exceptions to others; therefore, clarify internally (and if possible, publicly and transparently) when exceptions will be granted and ensure that these exceptions are fair.
- Maintaining professional boundaries with CEOs is essential in establishing a productive and respectful working relationship. It is important to remember that CEOs are not your friends, but all parties creating a friendly and positive work environment is crucial. To earn a CEO's favor, focus on impeccable execution by consistently delivering what is required without overstepping boundaries. Rather than boasting about yourself or offering excessive compliments, demonstrate respect and courtesy towards everyone. Keep interactions business-focused, seeking clarity and avoiding misunderstandings through transparent communication. Advocating for customers, clients, or communities when necessary and respectfully showcasing your commitment to ethical practices and quality outcomes. Emphasize the importance of performance excellence and maintain professionalism by prioritizing clear expectations and striving for outstanding results. By upholding these principles and demonstrating your dedication to excellence, you can build a strong foundation for successful long-term partnerships with CEOs, fostering mutual respect and collaboration.
- Some individuals with clinical narcissistic personality traits may be drawn to becoming influencers due to the fame and power it can offer. However, this does not mean that all individuals with these traits aspire to be influencers. Keep in mind that being an influencer increases the likelihood of more people discovering who you are. So, if you struggle with insight or self-awareness which is defining aspect of narcissistic personality disorder, it's important to have clear ethical principles to follow to avoid potential pitfalls in your career.
- For Influencer partnerships: Native smartphone video content that is well-optimized and strategically delivered with your authentic voice tends to convert better on social platforms. Most smartphones these days will perform at high quality with good lighting. While professional (e.g. DSLR filmed) content is valued, your unique voice and community are your biggest strengths as an influencer. Embrace your individuality rather than mimicking the professional business style of the paying company. Focus on what truly matters to you and your audience. You are not obliged to go beyond your comfort zone, you are expected to be yourself. Communicate this comfort zone with respect. Stay true to yourself and your audience, empowering your personal brand and connection.
- When evaluating a business offer, it is important to avoid stating that you do not need the money and are only taking it to help.This tactic or mindset can often convey mixed messages, indicating a desire for the opportunity while also expressing a reluctance to be controlled. Nobody will ever control you if you communicate your limitations clearly. You must trust in yourself. A more effective approach is to express willingness to work on the project after receiving a non-binding outline (after an NDA is signed) detailing the brief and technical specifications.
- Business is a professional environment where while empathy may exist, owners are not obligated to address personal struggles such as low self-esteem and help you work through it. Focus on enhancing your confidence and skills through resources like self-help books, podcasts, therapy, or workshops. This approach has been integral to the CEO of MMASI for half her life and remains a continuous journey. We offer advice that we would apply ourselves in your situation. Personal development empowers you to navigate business interactions with a solid foundation and a winning mindset. Taking ownership of your growth is key to progressing in life rather than relying on someone else to save you. Once you've built self-confidence, approach any potential business partner you value, not necessarily us. But start with inner growth first.
- Don't always expect or demand an apology: Sometimes, there are signs that a partnership may not be a good fit—either because the expectations was not clear for the specific business contractor, or because they were unable to meet the requirements due to ineffective communication of limitations or lack of acceptance of their capabilities. If either parties overlook these signs and someone ego ends up feeling bruised, it's often nobody's fault. In such situations, it's best not to seek retribution but to view it as a learning opportunity. Acknowledge mistakes, reflect on what went wrong, and use it as a chance to improve and grow. It takes two to tango; avoid adopting a victim mentality of 'it's always someone else's fault.' Take leadership accountability and remain open to future partnerships only if you truly want to.
- Straightforward communication with context as needed: When a client asks a question, respond directly to the question asked. Provide the answer upfront before delving into a story or background information. This approach promotes clarity and enhances the efficiency of communication. Give context or clarification as the gaps in knowledge and conversation develops. By respecting and accommodating different styles of communication, you can foster better understanding and strengthen professional relationships.
- While it's acceptable to express your preferences or common practices in business, it's important to note that doing so does not establish industry policies (e.g., FDA regulations) or legal standards. If terms like 'industry policy' or 'law' are referenced, substantiating evidence may be requested if not already widely avaliable. Failure to provide such evidence could undermine trust and suggest an attempt to manipulate outcomes for personal gain, potentially jeopardizing the working relationship. Therefore, it's advisable to avoid presenting your preferences or limitations as non-negotiable terms during business transactions.
Instead, focus on highlighting tasks where you excel as requested, adhering to industry best practices (which are often guidelines, not legal requirements), and honestly acknowledging any limitations. Emphasize your strengths rather than industry norms, especially in discussions related to pricing. Refrain from unnecessary comparisons with competitors and instead emphasize your unique value propositions. Remember, stating what you can or cannot do doesn't necessarily mean compromising the potential for a successful business partnership. Remain open to unexpected flexibility, and respond to inquiries with honesty and clarity. - Smart business practices align with human psychology: Rewarding excellence, offering both positive and constructive feedback, admitting mistakes, and treating employees with dignity (i.e. lunch breaks, limited off work emails) fosters a successful, sustainable company, ultimately commanding respect for the ethical, fair and intelligent leadership of the business owner. This approach isn't just morally right; it demonstrates a deep understanding that success and the bottom line is achieved through collaboration and mutual respect, not achieved in a vacuum.
- Profit is a form of a reward to the CEO and company and profit augments continued dedication to the business and community: As a business advances, the CEO's role should evolve towards delegating tasks to emphasize communication, strategic thinking, leadership, planning, and execution within the organization. Some may underestimate the value of this shift, considering it not as tangible work. However, it is crucial to appreciate that each company holds a unique vision and mission that is best represented by their founder. Drawing inspiration from the experiences of Dr. Chiamaka, who started as a hands-on business manager and later transitioned to strategic leadership, CEOs must progressively shift focus from day-to-day operations to overarching responsibilities for the survival of their company. Strategic outsourcing to competent professionals at the right junctures is vital for sustainable growth. Though successful CEOs may encounter critique or jealousy due to their perceived financial gains, it's vital to acknowledge the weight of their duties and the intricate web of managing a complex enterprise as it grows. Providing fair and progressive compensation to any CEO is essential, recognizing their contributions and ensuring progressive rewards as the company scales to motivate ongoing dedication to company development. Money serves as more than just a transaction record; it is a powerful motivator to do more for yourself and more for your people. Remember, ethical business conduct and community reinvestment are cornerstone elements of conscientious leadership. It's notable that all profits generated by MMASI are reinvested into the company's expansion; the owners don't extract personal profits and intend to maintain this practice for the foreseeable future. Remember that good business strategy works in tandem with human psychology.
- In partnerships, particularly with POC and woman-owned brands, it's important to avoid being patronizing or excessively focused on equity at the expense of the brand's autonomy. This approach is often seen in DEI initiatives and can inadvertently create barriers and hinder their growth. Instead, the emphasis should be on providing tailored support that respects each partner's individuality and preferences. Effective communication that recognizes the unique contributions of all parties involved is crucial, steering clear of preconceived notions or biases. Transparency, honesty, and fostering trust through authentic interactions are key. Empowering partners with information without micromanaging demonstrates respect for their independence and capabilities, leading to a mutually beneficial and collaborative partnership.
- There's a clear distinction between a leader, manager, mentor, and supervisor: Not everyone a company hires are a business partner; this term usually implies profit sharing or a long-standing contractual agreement. A business partner is never a manager and does not act as a supervisor of another company; they manage and supervise themselves. Mentorship is optional for a business partner, and leadership is a shared responsibility between two equally capable partners towards the specific agreement, nothing outside of that. Not everyone should aspire to become business partners and share the same level of responsibility and stress for the sake of money. For those being hired for a specific task or skill, it is crucial to understand the expected role to avoid exceeding your capacity or blurring boundaries. Please see below for definitions to guide you:
- Leader (Sets the direction): Inspires and motivates others towards a shared vision. This role is usually filled by individuals who are responsible for setting the direction of the entire company or organization, such as the CEO, CTO, CMO. The job of a business partner (independent contractor) is to ensure that the ethos, mission, and vision of their company align with that of their client. The business contractor is not the leader of the client's company. And the client is not the leader of the business partner's company.
- Managers (Drives granular execution): oversee daily operations and ensure efficient task completion. The role of a manager is not about micromanaging but rather focusing on granular execution. Contrary to business partners, managers do not conceive plans or higher-level execution; instead, they work on ensuring tasks are completed according to the agreed-upon goals. Business partners are expected to self-regulate and manage themselves to achieve the set objectives collaboratively. Remember, effective managers do not need to micromanage but should facilitate and guide the team towards successful outcomes, oversee day-to-day operations, ensuring tasks are completed efficiently without micromanaging. While micromanaging may be associated with a manager's role, it is crucial to note that business partners are not managers of other business partners. Business partners are expected to self-regulate and manage themselves to accomplish agreed-upon tasks and goals, thus driving execution effectively.
- Supervisors (Ensures compliance): Oversees and guides a team, with a primary focus on performance and procedure adherence. Rather than micromanaging, supervisors act as a resource for resolving policy-related queries or issues. Unlike managers who ensure task completion, supervisors ensure adherence to company policies. Their role differs from that of a manager. While a business partner can offer guidance on regulations like IFRA or shipping hazard regulations, they should refrain from critiquing a client's general operations decisions. If safety concerns arise, supervisors should address them respectfully.
- Mentors (Supports professional and personal growth): is a guiding light that provides valuable advice, encouragement, and expertise to help individuals enhance their skills and progress in their careers. Typically, mentors are individuals who have first-hand experience in the same field as you or have faced similar challenges, sharing common values that you admire and aspire to embody. While it's not necessary for your mentor to mirror your demographics, having shared characteristics can enhance relatability and empathy in the mentoring relationship. What truly matters is that your mentor shares your drive, work ethic, ambition, and values. Mentors usually take a hands-off approach, offering wisdom and support rather than getting involved in day-to-day tasks. While business partners may offer guidance, mentoring is not their primary role or financial incentive. One-on-one mentorship is typically provided without charge, focusing on building lasting connections that benefit the industry. Mentors assist in navigating personal challenges and growth areas that may not be addressed by others, drawing from their own experiences to motivate and guide mentees. It's essential that mentorship remains transparent, encouraging, and free from any form of manipulation or undue influence. (Supports professional growth)
- Understanding your anticipated role is key to operating effectively and providing the expected value. In a company with 1-2 owners, it is common for the CEO to take on multiple roles, as employees and contractors cannot effortlessly discern the company's needs. Some freelancers may require more explicit direction, guidance, and support than others. It is crucial not to impede the work process and diligence on the part of the owner, as any form of persistent resistance to accomplishing their goals and responsibilities could lead to disengagement. In other words, let each person do their job(s).
- Transparent and flexible service Itemization: In business services, especially amidst forecast uncertainty, it is essential to itemize your offerings to provide clarity to clients regarding their expenditures. For instance, hypothetically charging $1000 for brand guideline creation can be broken down into specific components. This breakdown includes: 1) costs for brand conception, research, and analysis akin to a creation fee; 2) labor costs for logo, banner, and favicon creation; 3) compilation and formatting expenses for the brand guideline; and 4) licensing or asset ownership transfer costs. If you find discomfort in itemizing, it may indicate a need for further standardization of your processes. Itemizing services isn't about scrimping on details; rather, it builds trust and flexibility. Allowing clients to select specific services they need attracts a broader clientele. Those seeking comprehensive solutions opt for the full package, while others with specific needs tailor their choices accordingly. This approach enhances customer satisfaction and opens doors to business growth opportunities. Remember, every small transaction can act as a lead magnet for future business. A positive initial interaction can encourage return for higher-value services. Use logical pricing strategies and psychological insights to navigate business decisions effectively across different economic climates. If you believe your business standards are best met by bundling services comprehensively, communicate this in scoping questionnaires or calls. However, be comfortable if clients choose to decline such offers.
- In business, service is paramount, and once you commit to serving, it transcends personal preferences and comfort. Serving the customer authentically does not compromise your standards or authenticity. Keeping the ultimate customer in mind holds every business owner accountable. Ultimately, you are serving the client's target audience, fulfilling their desires, and embodying their aspirational identity. This dedication is the sacrifice business owners make for their success, and satisfied customers often bring fulfillment and accomplishment. These principal underscores prioritizing customer needs and expectations above personal preferences, as business success hinges on exceeding these expectations. Therefore, loyalty must ultimately lie with customers (the end user) and therefore your loyalty should lie with business partners who help you achieve your customers wants and/or needs. Upholding this principle fosters trust, loyalty, and enduring success in the marketplace. However, balancing client service with adherence to your brand ethos and identity is crucial.
- Knowing your worth isn't about entitlement; it's about unwavering confidence in your ability to learn, adapt, and overcome any challenge. This constant growth mindset fuels the belief that you can achieve and deliver on anything asked of you within ethical boundaries, including new skillsets or topics that might be outside your comfort zone. Is not the status, accolades or wealth you have that makes you great, it’s your mindset
- Support quality small businesses and freelancers: small businesses are the backbone of our economy, embodying the American spirit of innovation and opportunity. They deserve our respect, ethical & effective support.
- Do not judge a woman based on her looks, whether her looks are perceived positively or not. This is disrespectful to her achievements and distracting to the bottom line. Business leaders must stay above the nonsense and be self-aware of social conditioning and gender politics. Stay above the influence.
- Respond during active contracted business partnerships: During active contracts, prioritize responding to client inquiries within a week. If unforeseen events like family obligations cause a delay, proactively (ahead of time) explain and apologize. Avoid excuses – leaders take responsibility and commit to faster responses. Progress, sincerity and change is the only thing expected of you, not perfection.
- Commissions (percentage of sales) are reserved for marketing-related B2B agreements (not service-related) and the industry standard for this is 15%. This amount can be higher (e.g. 30%) if there are no upfront costs. Try your best to stick to industry standards and focus on driving more sales to earn more, rather than charging more. Please note that an industry standard is not an absolute. It is a guideline; however, it also helps prevent abuse of either parties. And just because something was acceptable to another party does not mean it was the right thing to do. Always approach every deal uniquely.
- The standard profit margin for a product or retail-based company is typically 15-30%.Therefore, the selling price of a product does not represent the company's net earnings. Respect others by not delving into their personal finances even if you see or hear about their revenue earnings. Business is not easy no matter how it looks on the media. A consumers job is the evaluate the worthiness of the product, not the revenue cycle of the company. And the job of a business partner is to focus on completing the shared agreement at a price that is fair to them.
- Money can't buy passion.When someone desires change, no amount of financial incentive will extinguish that fire. Trying to stop them, even with good intentions, creates unnecessary tension or conflict. Respect their lane and their drive. Let them chase their purpose and focus on your own. We all have a road to run, so let everyone run theirs freely.
- Have respect for everyone's passion and don't compare one type of work to another type of work: Everyone's work in some way, shape or form contribute to the enhanced quality and/or convenience of everyone's life and work in the world. Entrepreneurs often pour heart and soul into their businesses, akin to raising a child. The time and resources devoted can be immense, varying by the individual. Respect their dedication – their venture is not a mere hobby. Their passion for their business deserves respect and the freedom to pursue it, just like the importance of family is respected. At MMASI, we understand this dedication. We value all forms of work and acknowledge the unique value each contributes. Collaboration thrives on mutual respect for each other's expertise. We are not here to take profits from your business. All profits from the business partnerships are what we have earned and is directly reinvested into the company to fuel its growth and development. This practice will continue for the next several years, ensuring a strong foundation for future success. We believe in building a collaborative partnership where everyone benefits.
- When the direction of the world is uncertain knowing who you are and standing on your good intentioned principles becomes prudent: In uncertain times, staying true to your values, mission and vision can help you weather the storm and maintain the loyalty of your team and community.
- Social media: a curated reality: Everyone creates an online persona, and businesses build brands as part of their brand promise and engagement with customers and partners. Avoid making snap judgments based on filtered snapshots. Authentic interactions reveal true character, not highlight reels. Social media provides glimpses, not the whole story. Develop critical thinking skills, as even innocent messages can be misinterpreted. If the Bible can be open to interpretation, so can a tweet. Social media lacks the depth for true judgment. Preserve the integrity of our legal system – let genuine interactions and due process determine character.
- Understanding Informed consent in business: Informed consent is a term native to medicine. But this concept can also be used in business to maintain trust and integrity between parties. It involves providing all necessary information to stakeholders, clients, or employees before they agree to any terms, conditions, or changes. This transparency ensures that decisions are made with a full understanding of the potential risks, benefits, and implications. By prioritizing informed consent, businesses can foster stronger relationships, prevent misunderstandings, and uphold ethical standards in their operations.
- Forget the public proposals: Business partnerships are built on trust and respect, not a surprise announcement. Approaching someone unexpectedly with a proposition can feel pressuring and disrespectful. Maintain professionalism by keeping these discussions private from the start – it paves the way for a successful and mutually beneficial collaboration. Don’t blindside people or force them to address such behavior publicly in return. They are not obligated to answer in public.
- In a well-functioning system, everyone has a crucial part to play. Play your role so everyone else can play theirs. If you are not being paid to do someone else’s job, then don’t do their job without first kindly asking them if you can help. Here's how to ensure smooth collaboration: Customers: Your feedback is essential for shaping the product you use. However, to provide the most impactful input, keep it focused on your experience with the product itself. Partners: Collaboration thrives within the agreed-upon contract. By keeping the focus on achieving shared goals within those parameters, we can ensure a successful partnership. Remember, the free market empowers those with a vision! If you have an urge to go beyond the current scope and feel you can do something better, that's the beauty of it all – you can launch your own venture and be the CEO of your own vision. Let's all leverage our strengths, respect boundaries, and focus on our designated roles to create a truly thriving ecosystem.
- Forget mistaking social media praise for a business proposition. A like or comment is likely a genuine expression of appreciation, not a recruitment tool. They're probably just being kind and engaging with their audience. Focus on building genuine connections. Positive interactions often lead to opportunities. Respond thoughtfully to their praise, and if interested offer something of value privately, and see if a collaboration develops naturally. Take everything at face value. If something is not explicitly stated, don’t assume without asking. And continue to be social and
- Address your bias: our assumptions can become self-fulfilling prophecies. If we expect someone to stumble, their minor missteps may seem to confirm our doubts. This sets them up for failure and hinders their potential. Approach interactions with an open mind. Focus on their strengths and allow them the space to grow. This fosters trust and empowers them to thrive.
- Diversity strengthens businesses: Affirmative action is a complex issue, often misrepresented in the media. It doesn't negate qualifications but aims to level the playing field by counteracting unconscious bias. This fosters a more representative workforce, reflecting the rich tapestry of our society. An inclusive environment strengthens businesses. Diverse perspectives lead to more creative solutions and better decision-making. Representation in leadership, both political and corporate, fosters trust and ensures policies reflect the needs of all citizens. Diversity is not just about numbers; it's about opportunity. Everyone, regardless of background, should have the chance to succeed on merit. This isn't a partisan issue – it's about creating a fair and thriving society for all. Let's move beyond outdated viewpoints and embrace the power of inclusion.
- Client satisfaction before payment: Always prioritize client satisfaction. Address any concerns or issues before requesting or accepting payment. This demonstrates your commitment to quality and builds trust for a long-term relationship.
- Always garner client feedback: Do not be afraid of constructive kind feedback because it can help you grow your business. Have a system such as a survey to garner feedback.
- Forget the competition. Success isn't a zero-sum game. Most people are on their own path, driven by a unique purpose, not just trophies. While competition can give you a temporary edge, it's your "why" that fuels long-term fulfillment. Find what truly makes you tick. This intrinsic motivation will not only attract the right collaborators (the competitive energy might turn some off especially a business partner), but it'll also make the journey more rewarding for everyone involved. Focus on your purpose, not the finish line of others. It's the key to unlocking a success that's sustainable and truly meaningful.
- Good intentions are a seed, but action cultivates kindness. Actively seek to right wrongs, challenge your own biases, and strive for continuous growth, both personally and professionally. True goodness lies in the ongoing pursuit of progress, not simply having good intentions. Good intentions are not the same as good actions. Be self-aware and aim for your thoughts to be congruent with your actions.
- Ditch the micromanagement. Paying someone doesn't make them your puppet. It's a fair exchange: you pay for great work (with the parameters agreed on), they then deliver. Business is a service, not a leash. Focus on results. Respect the deal and watch your team soar.
- Respect for private lives is paramount. A partner’s personal time belongs to them, if their work responsibilities are fulfilled. Privacy is not a privilege, but a fundamental human right that deserves respect in all industries. Focus on achieving results, not micromanaging other people's personal activities. Trust and respect are essential for building a successful team. When you value your partner’s well-being, which includes a healthy life outside of work, you foster a more engaged and productive work environment.
- Don't chase trends when making crucial decisions like funding or staffing. For example, a leader focused solely on popularity might abandon Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) initiatives during a downturn. However, true leadership requires a strong sense of purpose and core values that go beyond fleeting trends. Ethical practices, like promoting diversity, should be a constant, not a variable based on external pressures. The same principle applies to emerging technologies or other areas where public opinion might shift. As a business leader, it is important to develop your own consciousness and stick to your values. A new law shouldn't dictate your moral compass or core values.
- From tentative to thriving: the power of trust in new partnerships: Starting a new partnership can be nerve-wracking for both sides. Your clients or partners might feel some anxiety, entrusting you with their business. Empathy is key. Reassure them by asking insightful questions, actively listening to their needs, and consistently delivering high-quality work. This approach demonstrates your reliability and builds trust over time. As trust strengthens, autonomy naturally increases. They'll recognize your competence and feel comfortable giving you more space to excel.
- Resilience is the entrepreneur's defining trait, forged through experience and unwavering values.
- Free doesn't mean full service: While free consultations or assistance can be valuable, it's important to be clear about any limitations compared to paid engagements. Free work shouldn't be expected to deliver the same level of detail or commitment. This helps prevent burn-out and resentment especially for emerging brands or small agencies with limited resources. Remember, charity and bartering are fantastic options! But for-profit businesses exist to deliver exceptional value to clients in exchange for payment. This focus on exceeding expectations allows them to re-invest in themselves, provide top-tier service, and potentially support causes they're passionate about.
- Embrace your Imperfections: We all make mistakes. Striving for flawlessness is unrealistic and creates an unapproachable atmosphere. Instead, focus on embodying genuine human qualities – compassion, empathy, and a willingness to learn. People appreciate authenticity, progress and humility, not an impossible ideal.
- Approach all person of color and women clients as unique individuals: Just because you helped other people of color or women owned brands doesn't automatically mean you are equipped to help another. Every single person in this world is different. Understanding comes first. You must figure out who they are, what they want, and how they want it achieved before you jump in to help. Everyone's unique, so cookie-cutter solutions won't satisfy everyone.
- Don't waste anyone's time – including yours. B2B proposals require a plan. This means clear goals, allocated resources to execute, and a demonstrably positive ROI. Otherwise, it's a conversation best left when you are ready with a well thought out plan.
- Ditch the demographics checklist. Age and marital status are for Facebook, not hiring decisions. You're paying for skills, professionalism and results, period. Everything else is a bonus.
- Leverage AI strategically, not as a replacement for human expertise. Don't charge for tasks clients can easily do with AI on their own. Instead, focus on a comprehensive value proposition. Be transparent about how AI enhances your services – it can automate repetitive tasks, freeing your team for high-value, human-centric work. Many clients value the expertise that guides AI and augments success, even for tasks they could technically do themselves. Focus on where AI complements your team's strengths, filling gaps it can't address. This approach allows you to deliver exceptional value and maintain healthy margins and
- Boost efficiency not margins: Consider AI-powered solutions to increase client acquisition, quality of work, and overall output. This strategy has empowered many businesses. Analyze your workflow – AI can automate repetitive tasks, freeing your team for high-value work. By optimizing efficiency, you can potentially handle a higher volume without sacrificing profit margins or charging your clients more. However try not to lay people off if avoidable. Instead offer them a different job titles or tasks that is needed in the company. However, please understand that those job titles or tasks might not align with the individuals career goals and they are free to decline the offer.
- Forget the "freebie" mindset. Business thrives on mutual value. While a friendly request can be a good starting point to test the relationship, remember everyone's time is valuable, regardless of a formal contract. Respect that value by being upfront about your needs and offering compensation in return for what you're asking. This builds strong partnerships based on mutual benefit, not a sense of obligation.
- Honesty paves the way: If a potential collaboration's standards seem out of reach, a direct and honest approach is best. Express your appreciation for the opportunity but be transparent about your current capacity. Phrases like "This project requires a level of [specific skill] that I'm still developing" or "My current workload wouldn't allow me to dedicate the time needed" to work well.
- Avoid aggressive or manipulative tactics. Everyone has a breaking point, regardless of outward composure. Respectful communication builds trust and collaboration, leading to far better outcomes than forceful methods. Remember, legal complications are expensive and detrimental for everyone involved. Focus on finding win-win solutions through clear communication.
- Respect, not exploitation. Don't prey on perceived weaknesses. A simple, polite request achieves the same goal as strong-arming. You'll be surprised by what people do for a partner who values boundaries and treats them with decency. It's a win-win.
- Save the after-hours emails for genuine urgency & emergencies. We all need to unwind – constant contact kills productivity. Let people recharge, come back fresh, and deliver their best work.
- Seek understanding, not assumptions. Base your beliefs on verifiable facts, not personal interpretations. It's okay to have questions but strive for clarity. Solid foundations built on evidence lead to better decisions and stronger relationships.
- Seek justice privately: social media isn't a courtroom. Personal disputes can be emotionally charged, but public mudslinging only escalates negativity. If you have a legitimate issue, explore legal avenues – that's what the justice system is for. There are many success stories of businesses resolving disputes fairly through private channels. Focus on achieving a positive outcome through the proper course of action.
- Take clients at their word. And don’t watch them assuming they will fail, instead see if they can improve or make amends even if they do fail. Stay positive. Ditch the needless hurdles and testing on entry. They shouldn't have to prove themselves on entry – that fosters suspicion, not trust. Build trust from the outset then adjust how much trust you give by the actions, amends and improvements you organically see. Trust is the foundation for strong, enduring partnerships.
- Stop with the micromanagement. Clients have a clear task in mind – deliver on that with expertise. Being a resource is key, not acting like a hand-holder. Offer guidance or mentorship only when it directly impacts the agreed-upon transaction.
- Show effort in doing what is right and providing a remedy quickly - this effort will go a long way in preserving the relationship.
- Avoid assumptions: Always ask open-ended questions to fully understand your client's needs. Don't make decisions solely based on what you read and hear. What people need or want specifically can change. Have a conversation with an open mind.
- Power is a privilege, not a weapon: with greater power comes greater responsibility. Avoid exploiting your advantage for personal gain or retaliation.
- Uncover Industry pricing: research is key. Analyze pricing across companies, large and small. Look at high and low ends, including freelance platforms. Analyze the "gap in services" – what are clients not getting? If you can fill that gap with unique value, you can justify a premium price. Remember, competition is fierce. Research competitor pricing to find a sweet spot that's both competitive and profitable. Honesty is key - know your value, but don't undercut others. Focus on building long-term value and ethical practices, those earn lasting respect.
- Empathy builds bridges: When teaching someone new skills, compassion is key. Everyone starts somewhere. As a learner, be open and receptive to new information. There's no shame in not knowing – that's why you're learning!
- Teachers, remember, knowledge empowers, not belittles. Avoid flaunting expertise. Focus on clear explanations and celebrate "aha" moments. For both parties, active listening is essential. Understanding each other's perspectives fosters a positive learning environment for everyone.
- Not understanding someone doesn't automatically make them bad. We can't fully grasp everyone's experiences or values, but that doesn't diminish their right to be different. Instead, let's focus on respect and empathy. Sometimes, putting we in their shoes isn't possible, but acknowledging their feelings and respecting their perspective is key to building positive relationships.
- Niceness seeks approval/validation, kindness seeks to help: A nice person might say what they think you want to hear, while a kind person might tell you something difficult but true because it's ultimately truly better for you (assuming they truly know what you want and value). Keep in mind also that kindness though honesty does not have to contain mean, manipulative nor sugar-coated words.
- Focus on reality, not just the dream. Selling a dream can lead to disappointment and selling a dream as a potential partner without a plan is not wise. Let's have an honest conversation about what to expect, including both the potential for success and the challenges to overcome. This is empowerment through transparency. By discussing both the good and the bad, we can work together as true partners and prepare for all scenarios.
- Ditch the hero complex in business: In business, it's essential to move away from the hero complex. Success isn't about one person saving the day: it's about collective effort and mutual benefit. Everyone brings unique skills and efforts, and fair compensation reflects this. True success comes from honest work, respecting everyone's values and goals, and avoiding bias and ego. By fostering a collaborative environment, businesses can thrive and create lasting value for all involved.
- Accountability over avoidance: Don't avoid people rather than taking accountability for something you did to them. Set it straight and right the wrong. Avoidance does not absolve you from responsibility.
- Reflect before you criticize: Before criticizing others, consider if there's room for improvement in your own approach.
- Seek out diverse perspectives: Don't limit yourself to echo chambers especially on social media. Follow and engage with people from different backgrounds and viewpoints. This helps you see the bigger picture and avoid getting stuck in a damaging narrow worldview.
- Avoiding favoritism fosters a fair and productive work environment where everyone can succeed based on their skills and talents.
- Give what's needed before giving what sounds good. For example, if you're a perfumer creating a fragrance for a brand, focus on giving the amazing fragrance mixture and all the Safety Data Sheet, details on in what region each ingredient is sourced, details on creation process, and other necessary paperwork. The fancy packaging can come later. After all, the juice will always be the most important part of the fragrance.
- Passive disrespect is just as bad as active disrespect: No or limited communication during an active business contract leads to a lack of respect, which can ultimately hurt the business partnership. Sometimes the individuals who think they do no harm, do the most harm. Neutrality does not always absolve you from responsibility.
- Value feedback: Listen attentively to client positive or constructive feedback and incorporate it whenever possible.
- For mending business bridges, consider a sincere apology over a grand gesture. A direct phone call or in-person conversation allows for genuine dialogue and a chance to rebuild trust. Grand gestures can feel impersonal and might not address the root cause of the rift. A true leader will be more concerned about fixing the problem that caused the situation in the first place.
- Without a practical understanding of business complexities, reserve judgment on business decisions. Focus on your area of expertise and fulfill your agreed-upon responsibilities, whether as an employee, client or business partner. Running someone else's business isn't your role. Treat others with respect, as you would want to be treated.
- Transparency is key: Be transparent about your capabilities and experience to ensure a good fit for both parties.
- Standardization for efficiency: Develop standardized processes, even for customizations, to provide clients with upfront estimates.
- Positive communication: Don't misinterpret client questions as challenges or attacks. Embrace direct, respectful communication from all levels. For example, If a client asks why something isn't profitable, take accountability where fit (leaders don't point fingers) and provide a reasonable collaborative response or solution. A logical client knows life happens and will work with you to remedy the situation or make the best of it, but you must take accountability as a contractor.
- Good character transcends labels: People come in all shapes, sizes, and backgrounds. The good news is goodness transcends labels. Every walk of life produces remarkable individuals. Similarly, challenges can arise from anywhere and from anyone. Focusing on the individual allows us to appreciate the unique strengths and weaknesses each person brings to the table. Let’s move beyond stereotypes and embrace the beautiful complexity of humanity
- Respect direct feedback: Be receptive to clear, respectful and explicit communication, from CEOs, managers and supervisors.
- Align with business Goals: Before discussing finances, seek a deep understanding of the client's business goals.
- Put yourself in the client's shoes (empathy). They're looking for solutions and a return on investment. Show them how your skills and experience solve their problems and quantify the positive impact you can have on their business.
- Deliver client needs: While providing professional feedback, always prioritize delivering what the client requests, without judgement. Consider that everyone will make decisions based on their values and not necessarily on what sells. You must accept this and adapt if you want to get many clients in the future.
- Build trust, not fear: Genuine collaboration is key with informed consent. Avoid tactics that lower self-esteem so you can better sell to the person.
- Win-win focus: Always strive for mutually beneficial solutions that deliver profits for both client or business partner.
- Brand awareness vs. conversions: Clearly identify the client's primary goal - brand awareness, traffic or conversions - and communicate your approach beforehand.
- Contracts for clarity: Be open to signing contracts when necessary to ensure clear expectations and protect both parties.
- Competitive pricing: Set your prices within industry standards and specific work requirements, considering both the upper and lower limits of the typical range.
- Deliver consistent quality: Consistently ensure your work meets or exceeds industry standards. Clients rely on dependable performance.
- Transparency builds trust: Showcase a range of your work, including both your best and less-than-perfect examples. This builds trust by setting realistic expectations and demonstrating your range and capabilities.
- Strategic pricing: Don't feel pressured to raise prices simply because others do. Being an entrepreneur is about innovation. Find creative solutions to maintain consistency or competitiveness, while considering your clients' needs. Remember, entrepreneurs are leaders who navigate challenges and make strategic creative decisions. However if you need to raise your prices immediately to survive then do what is best for the survival of your business. You can find creative solutions later.
- Build credibility: Provide potential clients with references or a media kit showcasing your work and accomplishments. This establishes trust and demonstrates your capabilities.
- Bridge communication gaps: If encountering a language barrier, don't hesitate to utilize an interpreter, translation services or trusted colleague to ensure clear communication with your client.
- Foster an environment of fairness: Prioritize fair and unbiased business transactions. Approach every client with an open mind, focusing on their needs and qualifications without assumptions or bias.
- Address performance Issues before it’s too late: Strive for clear communication throughout the client relationship. If performance concerns arise, address them directly and professionally, working towards a positive resolution.
- Foster collaboration and trust: Avoid gossip, negativity, and taking credit for others' work. We value teamwork and loyalty. We believe in open communication, constructive criticism, and supporting our colleagues and partners.
- Be yourself: Let your personality shine through in your interactions but maintain a level of professionalism appropriate for the situation.
- Follow instructions carefully and don't hesitate to ask for clarification if anything seems unclear. Use your logical reasoning to navigate the process to avoid micromanaging which can stunt creativity.
- Conduct a partnership debrief: Schedule a debriefing session after the project's completion. This allows both parties to discuss what worked well, what could be improved for future collaborations, and any areas where communication or expectations could have been clearer.
- Avoid pricing based on bias: Avoid basing our pricing/fees/rates on factors like race, gender or marital status (bias). Stay the course and determine your fees by the project's scope and complexity, ensuring fairness and value for all clients.
- Know your limits. If we're not the right fit, be upfront. A smart CEO appreciates honesty and will not be let down. Don't try to be someone you are not.
- Don't constantly sell yourself. Just be yourself, if the client didn't trust you had the capacity, they would have never moved forward with the project or opportunity. Trust that they already see and know your worth. Don't start doubting yourself and self-sabotaging. Answer their questions, be diligent and communicate openly. Focus on progress and getting better.
- Regaining trust: However, if you have severed trust (after multiple communications) then you will need to then prove yourself and this is a given to define a long-term partnership.
- Don't enter a relationship with anxiety. Focus on the best-case scenario but believe you can adapt to any challenge. Stay mindful and avoid dwelling on worst-case possibilities.
- Don't overcharge upfront: When starting a new service or testing out a brand-new product in a market, consider a competitive, introductory or complimentary price. This allows you to gather valuable feedback and refine your offerings before raising prices, and helps you avoid overextending yourself while building experience. This also helps avoid negative feedback.
- Support diverse businesses: Recognize the value of women-owned and minority-owned businesses. Treat all businesses with respect and fairness the first time you meet them, fostering a more inclusive and successful business environment.
- Proactive approach: Taking a proactive approach to your mental and emotional well-being can have a profound impact on your business success. By working on your mindset and self-love, you'll be better equipped to handle challenges and build resilience.
- Undistracted loyalty is a rare treasure. Someone who prioritizes the company's success without needing constant recognition can be more valuable. Choose such individuals and treat them with great care. However, skill and competence are also a priority to consider as to not decrease the quality of the company.
- Help people but focus on profit so we can all help more people. Certainly, we're in the business of helping people and businesses thrive. But let's not forget – results matter. True ROI translates to a positive financial impact. Vanity metrics and online popularity are secondary. The focus should be on demonstrably increasing the bottom line.
- Be kind, but for the right reasons: Kindness is a powerful tool but wielding it with the wrong intentions can backfire. True kindness stems from genuine empathy, not manipulation. It's about uplifting others without expecting anything in return. When kindness becomes a weapon, it can create emotional debt or a sense of obligation. Let's practice kindness authentically, fostering positive connections without ulterior motives.
- Great leaders empower, not envy. Focus on fostering a culture of growth where everyone thrives, ensuring resources fuel success for the entire team.
- Humility is a key ingredient for great leadership. Achievements are steppingstones, not a finish line. Don't let them cloud your judgment about others. True leaders have the foresight to see potential in people, whether they're already famous or just starting out.
- Negotiations in business-to-business partnerships are a standard practice. Don’t presume to know what your client or business partner should need to be comfortable. That is not your place. Get comfortable with negotiating especially with high ticket offers (>$1000). Anticipate negotiation and adjust your proposal accordingly, if needed. Remember, negotiation doesn't equate to accepting an entire offer. It's about reaching a mutually beneficial outcome. And you are always free to walk away if necessary.
- Present strong offer, respect client's decisions. Client circumstances are unique. We shouldn't presume to determine what constitutes a favorable offer for them. Instead, let's present a compelling proposal that demonstrably justifies its value. Ultimately, the decision rests with the client.
- Negotiation is individual. Don't leverage Person A's deal against Person B. Everyone deserves the chance to negotiate for their best outcome in accordance to their needs. Don't compare contracts - everyone is different.
- Client finances are confidential. Focus on offering value, not prying into their bottom line. Appearances can be deceiving – success often comes with sacrifices. Respect their privacy and focus on building a mutually beneficial partnership.
- Friendliness doesn't negate professionalism. This is business, not a social club. Maintain a courteous distance and keep your guard up. Every interaction is an opportunity to showcase your best work.
- Respect fundamental human needs. Breaks, self-advocacy, privacy, and good working conditions are essential, not indulgences. Treat people with dignity, not as cogs in a machine. Remember, financial success hinges on a satisfied and empowered workforce.
- Business partnerships thrive on solutions, not soap operas. Leave the venting to your therapist – venting to partners creates drama, not progress. Seek professional advice if relevant, but otherwise, keep personal problems private. Focus on turning those issues into actionable solutions to strengthen both the business and the partnership.
- Office gossip is a dead end. Don't solicit dirt or use hearsay as ammunition. If you stumble upon a rumor, bury it – it doesn't concern you. Focus on objective facts and evidence to guide your decisions. People's careers are on the line – treat them with respect. Remember, whispers can derail projects, so focus on the company's goals and cut the chatter.
- Limitations are real. Don't sugarcoat it. If the project exceeds your capabilities – resources, infrastructure, or expertise – be upfront. It's not about shutting down possibilities, it's about honest assessment. We step aside if we're not the right fit, allowing the client to pursue their ambitious goals. Honesty builds trust, deflection wastes time.
- Clients entrust us with their investment, expecting a superior outcome. This translates to a first-rate product coupled with exceptional service. Delighted clients become loyal partners, and loyal partners fuel our company's growth. Prioritizing exceptional service is the cornerstone of a flourishing business.
- Sharp focus is key. Clients have a specific request – deliver on that precisely. Don't veer off course with extras as a replacement for the essentials they asked you for. Transparency is your ally. Be upfront about your capacity to deliver. A polite 'no' is acceptable – business is built on consent, not force. Honesty with respect builds trust and avoids disappointment.
- Smart clients consider more than just speed. They want a partner who delivers efficiently and ethically. Cutting corners can cause lose of trust and eventually lose of clients. Focus on both – efficient execution with unwavering integrity to quality, communication and transparency. That's the formula for repeat business.
- "Nice" is surface-level politeness. "Kind" is deeper – doing the right thing. Even if it's tough, deliver honest feedback but do it constructively and without malice or public/private humiliation. Kindness, not just niceness, can spark real growth.
- Everyone has their own perspective, and that's valuable. But endless discussions can stall progress. Focus on both the plan and execution. And don't be afraid to learn/adapt as you go especially during changing times. Communicate clearly, even if viewpoints differ. Respect their opinion, then it's time for action. Your team and your strategy are crucial, but stay focused on effective solutions, not just their beliefs.
- Business owners are not here to play saints or to convince people that they are righteous. Consistently trying to convince a business partner that you are an angel can be seen as suspicious. Who we are will be seen in our actions, not words. Focus on results, delivered efficiently and ethically to industry standards. You don't need to be worshipped, just trusted. Clients crave clear communication and integrity.
- Loyalty is a two-way street in business: Stand by your partners, and they'll stand by you. Don't ask for what you can't offer – reciprocity builds trust. But realize that your business partners will be loyal when you are loyal to your mission and achieving excellence while adapting to new circumstances.
- Profitability through value. Every client interaction should contribute, directly or indirectly, to the bottom line. But remember, value always comes first. Focus on delivering exceptional results that justify your fees, building long-term loyalty that fuels sustainable growth.
- Character is king. Forget pretense – actions speak louder than words. Clients see through facades. Build a strong reputation based on integrity and results. That's the key to earning their respect, and ultimately, the payment you deserve.
- Authenticity builds trust. Forget forced connections. Let relationships develop naturally through genuine communication. Strong partnerships form when trust is organic, not manufactured.
- Don't overestimate ROI promises in your pricing. The market's dynamic, making forecasts unreliable. Price competitively within industry standards.
- Influencers, your reach is a powerful responsibility! Focusing your energy on building positive partnerships. Small businesses rely on trust, so collaboration can be mutually beneficial. If past experiences with larger brands were less than ideal, address them directly and don't treat smaller brands the way you were once bullied. Small businesses can be great partners – let's work together for success!
- Pricing transparency is key. Don't be afraid to delve into what various companies, both established and emerging, are charging for similar services. Look at both extremes – high-end agencies and bargain freelancers – to get a well-rounded picture. Here's the crucial element: what are clients not receiving elsewhere? Can you offer a distinct solution that fills that void? If you bring a unique value proposition, you can confidently command a premium price. However, remember, the market is fiercely competitive. Research your competitors' pricing to find the sweet spot – a price that's both attractive for you and profitable for them. Ultimately, it's not just about the bottom line. Building a reputation for ethical practices is paramount. Be upfront about your value but avoid undercutting yourself or overcharging others. Focus on providing long-term value and operating with integrity.
- Maintain a clear perspective. While self-confidence is crucial, remember that no business operates in isolation. Conduct thorough research to understand competitor offerings. By identifying areas where you can provide exceptional value or a distinct service, you can confidently position yourself in the market.
- Respectful personal space, not Love bombing: Earn trust through genuine interactions, not excessive praise or flattery. Space is valuable in business. Give clients room to breathe and make decisions on their own terms. Showing respect doesn't require constant reaffirmation.
- Self-worth blooms within: Don't rely on external validation to define your value. Discover what motivates YOU and build your own confidence. A heartfelt "good job" might mean more coming from yourself!
- Embrace humanity in business: Personal aspects like politics, religion, and mental health can shape our business decisions. Ignoring these influences is unrealistic. Instead, practice self-awareness. Acknowledge how your values and experiences might impact your approach. Transparency is key. If certain transformative beliefs might influence a business decision, disclose them openly in a positive way. This allows clients to make informed choices and fosters trust. Ultimately, our humanity, with all its complexities, is what makes us effective leaders. By acknowledging our biases and operating with transparency, we can create a more positive and inclusive business environment.
- Fight Bias: Negative experiences with a few shouldn't taint your view of an entire group. We all have unique personalities that transcend labels. Cultivate logical thinking. Recognize that stereotypes are generalizations – exceptions exist everywhere. By challenging these biases, we create a more inclusive world for ourselves and future generations.
- Respect: the cornerstone of success: Humiliating others, in any form, weakens relationships and diminishes trust. It doesn't matter if it's public, private, passive, or active – it's always unproductive.
- Focus on building each other up. Combining both positive and constructive criticism delivered with respect is far more effective. Show empathy and understanding. This fosters collaboration and allows everyone to thrive.
- Respect the Hierarchy: Leaders have the responsibility to set direction for their companies. While open communication is valuable, it's important to respect their ultimate authority. If a leader's direction doesn't align with your values or goals, a respectful disconnect might be necessary. You can always choose to disengage and find a new opportunity that better aligns with your professional aspirations.
- Prejudice can exist within any group, including people of color. This isn't about assigning blame but recognizing that we all have biases to unconsciously navigate. Internalized stereotypes can be a challenge for anyone. By acknowledging these biases and actively working on self-awareness, we can dismantle prejudice within ourselves and create a more inclusive environment for all. Self-reflection is a lifelong journey, and everyone benefits from examining their own assumptions. This awareness is the foundation for building a more equitable and just society.
- The onus shouldn't solely rest on POC shoulders. Systemic racism is a complex issue with deep roots. While individuals can work on self-awareness to address their own biases, eradicating systemic issues requires a broader approach. People of color are essential voices in this conversation, sharing their experiences and leading the way for change. However, the onus shouldn't solely rest on their shoulders. True change comes from collective action. Everyone has a role to play – advocating for policies that promote equity, challenging discriminatory practices, and supporting organizations working for racial justice. By working together, we can dismantle these obstacles and create a society where everyone can thrive.
- Asking questions isn't weakness, it's intelligence: In today's world, information is plentiful. But simply knowing facts isn't the hallmark of intelligence. The true mark lies in how we use that knowledge. Good questions clarify understanding in business-to-business dealings, prevent mistakes, and lead to better decisions. They show curiosity and a desire to learn, both of which are essential for growth. Don't be afraid to ask questions! An inquisitive mindset helps us learn, collaborate, and reach our full potential.
- Respect women leaders from the start. Forget social media or personal biases. In the professional world, women leaders deserve immediate respect. Their position and expertise command it. Don't make them earn your respect because even if they earn your respect, they might resent you for making them go through more to prove themselves. Respect them from the outset. This creates a more professional and collaborative environment for everyone. Treat everyone with respect, no matter how long you've known them. Professionalism is key.
- Building respect with business partners starts with speaking their language. Ditch the flowery terms and excessive bragging – clear, concise communication tailored for the business world is key. Use terms such as profit margins, return on investment, brand awareness (and many more) to garner trust in business-to-business transactions. Let your accomplishments do the talking – showcase your portfolio and highlight specific successes that demonstrate the value you bring. Project confidence in your abilities but focus on how your offerings solve their problems. By prioritizing business-focused communication and showcasing your value proposition, you'll establish yourself as a trusted and reliable collaborator.
- Success isn't a trophy with everyone vying for the same prize. Let go of the ego-driven idea that success has a universal look. Define it for yourself – is its financial comfort, creative expression, or leaving a positive mark? But remember, especially in business, there's a reality to consider. Align your goals with your values, but ensure they also contribute to the bottom line - monetary attainment. The bottom line can translate to achieving a lot of money or a little bit of money, depending on your goals. Genuine satisfaction comes from that internal compass balanced with achieving financial sustainability, whatever that means for you. Status might not be universally bestowed, but the rewards of achieving your personal goals and contributing to a thriving business surely are. Respect the journeys of others, for their definition of success might look completely different from yours, and that's something to celebrate, not diminish.
- Respect through mutuality: fair deals, strong partnerships. Forget handouts and charity angles. Business thrives on fair exchange. Approach leaders with a value proposition that benefits both parties. Focusing on mutual benefit earns respect and builds strong, sustainable partnerships.
- Always disclose AI use to partners and contractors before it touches their work or proprietary information. Don't rely solely on a platform's safety claims. Utilize industry-standard evaluation methods and certifications to validate them. Responsible AI implementation requires thorough research and a realistic assessment of your capabilities. If, like most, you lack expertise in this area, seek professional guidance to navigate this complex technology effectively.
- Offering and Negotiation in Contracts
In the realm of legal contracts between smaller companies, neither the person being paid (employee/contractor) nor the person paying (employer/client) is obligated to offer a formal contract. Both parties have the freedom to choose whether to enter into a contractual agreement.
However, having a written contract is highly recommended for both sides and are a standard business practice for many companies. It clarifies expectations, protects interests, and minimizes the risk of misunderstandings later.
The Power of Negotiation
Most contracts involve negotiation. This means both parties can discuss and attempt to agree on key terms such as:
- Compensation:How much will be paid for the work or service?
- Deadlines:When are deliverables expected to be completed?
- Deliverables:What specific outputs are expected from the work?
- Rights:What ownership rights exist for the work produced (intellectual property)?
Negotiation allows each party to ensure they're entering a fair and mutually beneficial agreement.
Exceptions: Adhesion Contracts
There are some limited situations where contracts might be considered "adhesion contracts." These are pre-written, standardized agreements presented on a "take it or leave it" basis. They're most seen in consumer transactions like:
- Terms of service:Agreements you accept when using online platforms or apps.
- Software licensing agreements:Contracts outlining the terms for using specific software.
- High-volume, low-cost transactions:Standard agreements for everyday purchases where individual negotiation isn't practical.
Nuances of Adhesion Contracts
While adhesion contracts generally limit negotiation options, there might be some flexibility in certain scenarios:
- High-volume transactions:Businesses purchasing large quantities of goods might have some negotiating power to modify specific terms.
- Ambiguous clauses:Even in standardized agreements, some clauses might be open for discussion if they are unclear.
The Importance of Review and Consultation
Even with adhesion contracts, it's crucial to carefully review the terms before signing. If you have any questions or concerns, consult with a legal professional for guidance. They can help you understand the contract's implications and advise on potential courses of action.
Key Takeaway
Contracts are generally open for negotiation, allowing both parties to work towards a mutually agreeable arrangement. While adhesion contracts exist, they aren't always completely inflexible. Always prioritize reviewing the contract thoroughly, and if needed, seek legal advice before signing.
To build a strong and trusting partnership, we appreciate contracts with transparent terms that allow for open discussion and negotiation. A collaborative approach to contract terms fosters trust and sets the foundation for a successful long-term working relationship. Unethically forced contracts with no room for negotiation are unacceptable and will damage trust.
Importantly, signing a contract establishes a foundation, not a battleground. Disagreements are inevitable, and resorting to the contract should be a last resort after exploring all avenues for amicable resolution.